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Make suggestions, not demands Try getting hold of some erotic fiction or some porn that depicts the type of bondage you want to try.

Make your limits known and set boundaries as soon as possible.

Is wanting to be submissive or engage in BDSM normal? Some fabric bars have a length of metal sewn into the fabric, making them ridged and more restrictive.

Certainly, I don't use all of these, but they did look interesting.

To be clear, whether you're someone or submitting them to some other delicious torture, there is an element of danger or potential harm in any BDSM activity.

While there are many more secure and elaborate variants of this position, the simplest and most elegant approach is to use a double-column rope tie.

Mainly made of fabric or leather.

Move on to the Power Grab once the Armlock starts feeling too tame.

Most people desire to escape their normal selves.

Here we anchor the rope which produces the balltie by running it over the shoulders either side of the neck and down to the box-tie, where it can be safely secured, rather than running it directly around the back of the neck.

Note, I don't care for this as a flogging position, too awkward, but it's a humiliating position for caning and spanking.