You need to, after much prayer, and possibly fasting, if God witnesses to your spirit what we are saying is of God, and that is to confront him about the abuse, then follow through with the suggestion.
Should a Christian woman stay in a marriage of verbal abuse
Those in authority must confront sinful words and actions of those under them whether those words or actions are direct abuses toward the authority themselves or toward others.
Christian husband that is mentally and verbally abusive
It says God loved us while we were still ungodly, wicked enemies of God, so how could God love us when none of us are good Rom 3:10-12? For they eat the bread of wickedness And drink the wine of violence.